July 6, 2011

July NW WLS Pals Dinner

by Dina

Inviting, huh?

So – why don’t you come join us for dinner for our July get together? We’re definitely gonna sign up early for a table on the patio!

Place: Manzana Rotisserie Grill, 305 – 1st Street, Lake Oswego, OR 97034 (Jill – here’s your map!)

Date: Thursday, July 14, 2011

Time: 7:00 pm

RSVP: by 9pm Tuesday, July 12, 2011 please.

Please RSVP to me here (under the comments), via email (dinacmcb@comcast.net), on Facebook, or phone or text me at 503-887-6147. (Please feel free to RSVP early – we keep a list! )

Who can come?

Any WLS pre-op or post-op – or even if you’re just trying to figure out what WLS is all about – come join us!

Any support person of the above.

What do we do?

We share a meal, laugh, talk, hang out, kick back and relax.

There’s no agenda.

There are no time constraints.

If you have questions or just need to hang with someone who gets what it’s like to be a post-op – this is the group for you!

Hope to see you there!

February 7, 2011

February NW WLS Ed Dinner

by Dina
On the Border Mexican Grill & Cantina
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If you’re planning on joining us for dinner Thursday evening, would you do me a favor and let me know by Tuesday (tomorrow) evening?  You can leave a comment here, email me, or phone or text me with your RSVP.

Thanks!
Hope to see you there!!!!
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We had a great time at the January NWWLS Ed Dinner!

Monte chose February’s location – On The Border – a Tex Mex Restaurant not far off of Hwy 26 near Hillsboro. Here’s a link to their web site where you can find their menu and a map.

We’ll meet at 6:30 pm on Thursday, February 10th at On the Border for a great dinner! (And if you join their Club Cantina I hear that you get good coupons in your email!)

Please RSVP to Dina at 503-887-6147, Facebook, or dinacmcb@comcast.net by 9pm Tuesday, February 8th, 2011.  I’ll need to get a number in to the restaurant to make sure they’ve got plenty of room for our group.  :)

Hope to see you there!

PS – Just a reminder – we need someone at the next dinner to volunteer to choose the restaurant for March and handle the details. If you’d like to try a new restaurant, or know of a good one in a different part of town – be the one to volunteer, okay? :)

December 18, 2010

January NW WLS Ed Dinner and Support Group

by Dina

Wanted to give everyone a heads’ up on the January NW WLS Ed Dinner.  We’ve decided to move it to the 13th of January (it’s technically scheduled to happen the 1st Thursday of the month – but we’re pretty flexible!) to give everyone a little time to recover from the holidays.

We’ll be having dinner at Famous Dave’s (BBQ) in Tualatin – hopefully making it a little easier for our friends from the South to join us!  :)   Here’s a link to Famous Dave’s web site. And here’s a great link with a map.

Please RSVP to Dina at 503-887-6147 or dinacmcb@comcast.net by 9pm Monday, January 10th, 2011.  I’ll need to get a number in to the restaurant to make sure they’ve got plenty of room for our group.  :)

Our Support Group normally meets the 3rd Saturday of the month – which would be January 15th – just two days after this dinner.  In light of the fact that it’s such close proximity – and okay – I can admit it – the last full day with my daughter before she returns to the East Coast for college – we’re going to cancel support group for January.  We will meet next, then, on Saturday, February 19th, 2011 at 10:30 am at Cedar Mill Bible Church.  Hope to see you there!  :)

Questions?  Let me know!

November 30, 2010

December NW WLS Education Dinner

by Dina

Date: Thursday, December 9, 2010

Time: 6:30 pm

Place: Ernesto’s Italian Restaurant
8544 SW Apple Way
Portland, Oregon 97225
(one block east of Jesuit High)
(503) 292-0119 Phone

Their web site: http://www.ernestositalian.com/

You can see their menu online here: http://www.ernestositalian.com/menus.html

This is a great time to get together, try out a local restaurant, and enjoy a night out.

Open to all WLS (any surgery, any surgeon) pre-ops, post-ops, and their support people.

RSVP to Ward at w.preble@comcast.net

Questions? Contact Helen at helen@hmccanncpa.com or Dina at dinacmcb@comcast.net or cell phone 503-887-6147.

November 11, 2010

NWWLS Ed Group Dinner – TONIGHT!

by Dina

We will continue with the social outing for November by meeting on Thursday, November 11th at The Cheesecake Factory at Washington Square at 6:30 pm for a social dinner. Please RSVP so I can make arrangements. I will get to the restaurant early so you will not have to wait for a table. They will not seat us until all parties are there.

During this dinner we will choose someone to plan our next outing in December.

Thanks,

Lee

360-260-7447 – call to RSVP

Cheesecake Factory
Washington Square
Tigard, OR 97223
503-620-1100

October 15, 2010

IMPORTANT Information – Support Group Meeting Change

by Dina

Hello Everyone,

I am pleased to announce a new meeting place and time for the Beaverton support group meeting.

Due to decreased attendance over the past couple of year, the Beaverton support group meeting and the Baltasar support groups are joining together. The new group will be called the NW WLS Education support group. The new meeting place and time is the 3rd Saturday of each month at 10:30AM at Cedar Mill Bible Church. The church is located at 12208 NW Cornell Road Portland, Oregon 97229. The meeting is in room P-201 (top of stairs just outside of the elevator.) The first meeting will be in October on the 16th. There will be a lunch meeting at McGrath’s Fish House on Cedar Hills Blvd following the monthly support group meetings.

We also decided to start a monthly social outing for dinner and/or other events. The meetings will be on the first Thursday of each month with the first meeting on October 7th. On the 7th we will meet for dinner at the Screen Door Restaurant at 6:30PM. The Screen Door is located at 2337 East Burnside. Please RSVP so I can make reservations. This is a very cool restaurant with great food – a good opportunity to have some fun!

Please feel free to call Dina or I with any questions. ( Dina’s cell phone is 503-887-6147.) I will look forward to seeing you all at the new meeting and our dinner event.

Helen

Helen M. McCann, CPA, P.C.
1800 NE 63rd Avenue
Portland, OR 97213-4708

helen@hmccanncpa.com

(971) 998-7840 cell

September 4, 2010

The Last Portland Baltasar Support Group Meeting…

by Dina

Hey guys!

Just wanted to make sure to get the word out.

Saturday, September 11th, 2010 at 10:30 am will be the last official Portland Baltasar Support Group Meeting.  Seven years later – well, it’s just time.

We’ll meet – as usual – at Cedar Mill Bible Church, located at 12208 NW Cornell Road, Portland, OR 97229 from 10:30 am to about 12:30 pm.  After the meeting we’ll head over to PF Chang’s at Streets of Tanasborne for lunch.

So what’s the future of our group of pals?

Well – for those that wish to continue to meet, we’ll be merging with the Beaverton Support Group.  The Beaverton Support Group has been meeting on the 2nd Wednesday of each month for years and years at various locations throughout the Beaverton area.  We’ll be joining forces and changing the meeting time to the THIRD Saturday of each month at 10:30 am for an approximate 2 hour meeting.  We’ll meet at Cedar Mill Bible Church, in Room P201.  (Hey – it’s hard to find a free room!)  We’ll then chose a local restaurant to have lunch at after the meeting.

(By the way, there is a Beaverton Support Group meeting on Wednesday, September 9th, 2010 at 7:00 pm at Carr Chevy World near the intersection of Murray Blvd and TV Hwy. We’re meeting for dinner at 5:30 pm at the Beaverton (117th & Canyon) Red Robin. Email Helen if you plan to join us for dinner so she can call ahead for appropriate seating – her email address is mailto:helen@hmccanncpa.com.)

As you may be aware – there are few WLS-related support group meetings that are actually patient led and driven.  Our little contingent is just that – and offers the great added bonus of folks who range anywhere from pre-op to a decade or more post-op.  That’s rare to find.

I think it’s really important to also point out – once again – that folks who stay involved in face-to-face support groups are statistically about 75% more successful than folks who don’t.  Not only that – well, it’s a fun group of folks – we’re great to hang out with!

So come join us!

If you have questions – email me, message me, text me, give me a call, okay?

Blessings,

dina

June 2, 2010

Portland Baltasar Support Group Meeting – Important Information!

by Dina

The Portland Baltasar Support Group has been meeting together – for the most part EVERY month – since October 2003.

Dang – time flies!

During that time, literally hundreds of folks have come, gotten their questions answered, chosen to go to Spain and Dr. Baltasar for their surgery, and continued on with their lives.  It’s been amazing and incredibly cool.

Since the economy has pretty much tanked, the dollar devalued and the exchange rate pretty much stinks, fewer and fewer Americans are opting to go to Europe for surgery any longer.  Many are choosing to opt for *any* surgery insurance will pay for – many.

It’s getting to the point that at a typical support group meeting one – maybe two or three people will attend.

For that reason – and a few others – I’ve decided to go to meeting occasionally – not every month.  My time and energy have been greatly compromised due to my illness of the past year, as well as my need to earn an income.  While I’m still happy (thrilled, even!) to meet with people and answer questions – I think it best to change the Portland Support Group to perhaps a quarterly meeting.

So – for 2010 – here’s my plan:

June 12th, 2010 – we’ll meet at Cedar Mill Bible Church at 10:30 am to 12:30 pm, and then will find a restaurant for lunch afterwards.  I was thinking McGrath’s since it’s close, and so many of us like it so well.

then,

September 11th, 2010 – we’ll meet at Cedar Mill Bible Church at 10:30 am to 12:30 pm, and then will go to PF Chang’s for lunch afterwards.

That’s what I’ve got on the schedule for now.  I’m still not sure if that will be it for 2010 – maybe so, since it’s so hard to connect over the holidays.  Maybe we’ll just do a Christmas pot luck or something toward the end of the year.

I’ve had a LOT of interest from patients of other surgeons to have a DS and sleeve-specific support group for the greater-Portland area.  I am considering – still unsure what I’ll do as of yet – possibly transitioning the Baltasar group date/time to an open to all DS and Sleeve post-ops, instead.  Of course, there’s always the Beaverton Support Group Meeting.  It is the 2nd Wednesday of each month, and meets for dinner at 5:15 pm at a local restaurant, and then the meeting happens at Carr Chevy World (near the Beaverton K-Mart at Murray & TV Hwy) at 7:00 pm until 8:30 pm.  The Beaverton Support Group is open to all patients, all surgeries, all surgeons and is patient led.  A good way to stay abreast of where the dinner will be happening is to subscribe to the Northwest-OSSG group – here’s a link:  http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/Northwest-OSSG  announcements are also seen on the DS Oregon group:  http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/DS-Oregon

If I do go ahead and transition the group to a DS/Sleeve group, then I’ll probably move the meeting date to the 3rd Saturday of the month, or something like that.  It all depends on what the availability is from the church’s end.

Keep an eye on the BBB blog – at http://bodybybaltasar.wordpress.com – I’ll post reminders about meetings and lunch locations. (If you don’t know about subscribing to blogs – it’s a GREAT way to stay current on content! You can sign up to read online, or have a blog send you an email anytime there is new content posted there. Let me know if you need help doing this!)

Also – if YOU would like to blog at the BBB blog, just drop me an email and I’ll set up an account for you there.  It’s all about just being real about your surgery, your post-op life, what you’re struggling with, what you’re singing the hallelujah chorus over, etc.  It’s YOUR opportunity to share your thoughts/feelings, etc about your surgery experience.  It’s free.  It’s easy to do.  Let me know if I can help.

OF COURSE – if you want to meet up one-on-one to go over labs, or just talk, whatever! – let me know!  My work schedule is a little psychotic – I never know from day to day what hours or how many hours I’ll be asked to work, so it’s a hit or miss kinda thing.  I do try to keep current stuff on both the BBB blog and also over on my blog – http://livingthedslife.wordpress.com

Life is busy for us right now – Jessica is graduating from high school on June 10th.  WOW!  Where did that time go?!  She has been accepted to Boston University and will be heading there in late August.  Jonathan is uber busy with basketball.  He’s on the JV Summer League for the high school, works with a professional trainer several times a week, and will try out for the JV team come fall – hard to believe he’ll be a Junior next school year!  William continues to be the amazing, happy-go-lucky kid that he ever was.  He’s now 3 years post-op – his Sleeve has been nothing but a HUGE blessing.  He’s slated for another surgery at Shriner’s – probably this summer.  He’ll be in 8th grade next year.  Wild, huh?!  (You can see pretty current pictures of all three of the kids over on my Facebook page.)

And if you didn’t get my prior message – we got rid of the house phone.  If you need to reach me use my cell number – 503-887-6147.  I totally text, so feel free to do that, too.  Cell phones are about 1000% forbidden at work – so leave me a message and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can.

If you have thoughts, feelings, input, etc. about this change in schedule – I’m totally open to discussion.  We’re so fortunate to have a FREE space to meet at Cedar Mill Bible Church – meeting rooms can start at $50 a month – something we could never afford!  If you feel like we should stay at meeting monthly – let’s talk about it.  I just don’t want to continue to be there if it’s not relevant, wanted, etc.

Hugs!

dina

http://www.livingthedslife.wordpress.com/

April 22, 2010

Eight Years Ago Today

by Dina

This is me in April 2002.

Before April 22, 2002.

The morning of April 23rd, 2002 started like many of the mornings previous to it.

I’d slept poorly – sleep apnea will do that to you. So will sleeping sitting up in a recliner. But honestly, that’s the best way to at least attempt to sleep if laying down closes off your airway.

I hurt – an extra 235 pounds will do that to you. That added to degenerative joint disease and osteoporosis.

My blood sugars were way out of whack. I’d taken my meds faithfully – all five diabetes meds, and yet my fasting blood sugar was in the high 200s. Ugh.

I had a lot to do – I often felt like I had to do more than the average person. To prove my worth? That I could do as much – or more – than a normal sized person? I don’t know.

And as I sat at my desk I thought I’d get so much more done if I took the few minutes that would be required to clean it off and start with a tidy work area.

So I dug in.

Before long I came across a packet of information. Stuff I’d kind of pushed from the forefront of my mind. John and I had scrimped and saved to come up with an extra $100 to open a bank account. Our church had encouraged us to do so – so that if anyone wanted to help us out financially toward the seemingly impossible goal of paying for my weight loss surgery, that they’d be able to do so. We’d asked one of the elders from church to be an accountability person for that account – he’d agreed, and we’d given the church the information to access the account. That way, if someone wanted to remain anonymous, they could.

John and I figured that if we gave up things like extra trips to the grocery store, date nights, and cable, we could scrape together $100 a month to funnel into that surgery account. At that rate, well, we knew I’d be dead long before we had enough money.

I looked at that banking information and remembered that I was supposed to set up the online banking function, so that we would be able to monitor the account from home.

I got out the paperwork, followed the directions carefully, and set about setting up the online banking.

First, I was to dial the 800 number they provided. I was to enter an account number, answer a series of questions, and after several steps, I was told that I would be given the balance of my account. When I was done with that step – I read – I would then access the online component, download my account information – and if the balance matched – voila! I’d have done it correctly.

So I dialed.

I entered the account number.

I answered the series of questions.

And then an automated female voice said, “Your balance is $15,100.00.”

I froze.

My pulse accelerated.

I began to panic.

“OH NO!” I thought. “I’ve accessed someone else’s account! I’m going to go to jail!”

I quickly hung up the phone and tried to think what I should do.

I quickly dialed John’s number at work. I told him, “I think I’m going to jail. The FBI will be here in minutes, I’m sure!” Then went on to explain to him what had just happened.

Being the calm, logical, thinking person he is, he asked me to provide him with the appropriate information so that he could repeat the process. He told me to hang up the phone, and that he’d call me back in a few minutes.

I sat there shaking – sure I’d done something very, very bad.

Sure enough, John called back minutes later.

“I got the same balance.” He told me, and then went on to say, “So I pressed “0″ for operator, and spoke to a customer service representative. Yesterday afternoon, April 22, 2002, at about 4:15 pm someone deposited $15,000.00 in your surgery account.”

WOW.

Eight years ago today someone from my church – no, I don’t know who – went to my bank and deposited $15,000.00 in my surgery account.

Can you say miracle?

I can.

‘Cause you know – I was dying.

Just about the time someone was making that deposit in my surgery account, I was in an appointment with my primary care physician – who was telling me that if I didn’t have surgery SOON – like REAL SOON – I wouldn’t be alive to have surgery.

God is so amazing.

What a mind-blowing thing that someone would be so moved to obedience to God to do this incredible act of service and compassion.

Sorry – gotta say it again: WOW.

It still moves me to tears.

I hope it always will.

Thank you, Lord!

…and to that person out there who made that deposit – I don’t know words enough to adequately say how deeply you’ve blessed me. But please know that each day starts with a prayer for blessing on your life.

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